The Bliss Chronicles: The Early Stage of Career Transition
Are you thinking about a career transition, but you’re not really sure you have it in you to follow through with it?
Sometimes you’re taking steps towards a more satisfying career without really knowing. At least, that’s what happened to me, and momentum built up from there.
Nearly a year and a half ago I started blogging for Queercents because I had just completed a class on finance, and I wanted to apply what to I learned. Although I was working as a paralegal in financial institution litigation, my job had nothing to do with money on the personal level. I thought, Heck, I’ll do this blogging stuff for fun.
Much to my surprise, I found that it came rather easy to me, although of course there were nights my fist would pound the desk and I’d curse the very idea of writing. But once I finished a post, I forgot all about the momentary misery and loved blogging as a creative outlet again.
Then a strange series of events happened after the first few months of blogging. I started reading a lot of books about freelance writing. I lined up my Google Reader with niche sites about the topic too, as well with Internet commerce and entrepreneurship sites. I basically immersed myself in those subjects. I wasn’t entirely aware of it at the time, but I was crawling towards some kind of tipping point.
The real tipping point came when I lost my job, and I had to decide whether to stay in a line of work I didn’t like or become what’s now a cliché: guy gets fired and finds his career bliss.
Call me campy, because I wanted to be that cliché.
Luckily I had plenty of time on my hands to read through career guides and learn what I talked about last week — that in order to achieve career bliss, I’d have to take extensive inventory of myself, get advice, make plans, execute them, and keep refining plans.
I wish I could say the process is fun and games, but it’s hard work that requires solid dedication.
When you’re making a career transition, sometimes you have to start off at an entry-level position. Or in my case, you have to go school and then try to find an internship or something entry-level.
I’ve always loved learning, so I didn’t mind that all the legwork I put into refining my career goals indicated that a year of school for multimedia training would help me find rewarding work.
Having stamina and enduring the process of learning is perhaps the trickiest part. I find myself getting tripped up by some old habits. I’ll let ambition get the best of me sometimes, and I try to tackle tough projects. I sometimes get frustrated because I’m in a new field, and my output doesn’t quite come out the way I had hoped. But that’s the process of learning and improving.
That axiom about how you can’t teach an old dog new tricks is wrong: some old dogs are stubborn and don’t want to learn.
The most important lesson I’ve learned about making a career transition into something I truly care about is learning to pace myself. I’m quite passionate about having found a field where I get to create things. When a project moves along according to plan, I’m elated. When I hit a roadblock (like I did this past week), I’m furious.
Trying new things, experimenting, pushing yourself to reach higher levels in a field that’s new can make you aware that you have very delicate feelings about the decision you’ve made to make a career transition.
To me, that’s the essence of the early phase of a career transition. You’re like a newborn for a while. You’re blind at first, you start learning the basics, then you start specializing, and eventually, you gain confidence. You just have to keep growing, even if there’s struggle.
There’s an amazing line Tony Kushner wrote in his musical ‘œCaroline or Change’ that I’m going to close with because I’m gay and I believe all life lessons are in theater and ‘œThe Golden Girls.’
The character Dotty sings to Caroline:
‘œBut folk can’t just surrender to their fears / I know it hurt to change / It actually hurts learning something new / and when you’re full grown, it’s harder, that’s true — / it feel like you have got to break yourself apart / it feel like you got to break your own heart / but folk do it. They do / Every day, all the time’
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Next week: Why I’m glad I took the steps to find my career bliss.
John: I’m already enjoying this series… with its contemplative tone and description of the steps to get you there. I’m sure you’ll cover this in a later post, but I’m curious how you’re paying for your living expenses and schooling during this career transition.
Did you take out a student loan? Did the two of you scale back and you’re both living on only Zac’s income right now? How did you do the cost/benefit analysis of going back to school to gain skills in a new field? While it’s a different set of circumstances, a few of your thoughts reminded me of Moorea’s post a while back about the beauty of school during a recession. Keep up the good work. I love your contributions to Queercents and know you’ll be a success in whatever you pursue… whether it involves writing, film or music as you described in your last post.
By the way, “because I’m gay and I believe all life lessons are in theater and ‘The Golden Girls.'” — Now that’s a writer with a sense of humor. Funny stuff!
Hi John, Nina kindly pointed me in the direction of your new series. You’re a terrific writer and I’m sure it’s going to be great. If you’re game, please come on over to the How’d You Score That Gig? group in Facebook and tell my members about your quest. It’s exactly the content I’m looking for.
Best,
Alexandra Levit
Author, How’d You Score That Gig?
Blogger, Water Cooler Wisdom
http://alexandralevit.typepad.com
Hey John, sounds like you’re on the right track. Often when you hit an obstacle it’s a good sign. It means you’ve found an area where you need to learn more or grow. Sometimes the biggest obstacles are the best opportunities.
Congratulations on taking the plunge and having the courage to make your decision consciously!
http://jonathanmead.com – Authenticity, Clarity, Balance
I’m considering making a similar career transition myself. Which books and/or websites about freelance writing did you find most helpful?
Thanks,
B
Good question, Beatrice. Here were some books on writing that helped me to see that the field is not so impossible and scary:
– “The Well-Fed Writer” by Peter Bowerman
– “Six Figure Freelancing” by Kelly James-Enger
– “The Renegade Writer” by Linda Formichelli and Diana Burrell
I find these websites on freelancing to be informative:
Freelance Switch
Escape from Cubicle Nation
Seth’s blog (good resource about maintaining your brand)
Bad Language (more for commercial/marketing writing, but great resource for a freelancer)
I’m going to have to start with “The Well-Fed Writer”!
Thanks for the tips.
B