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		<title>By: Nina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator>
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		<description>Paula: &lt;strong&gt;Why don&#039;t we ask? &lt;/strong&gt;Barbara Stanny, the author of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.queercents.com/2007/11/12/under-earning-women-and-the-imposter-syndrome/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Overcoming Underearning&lt;/a&gt; thinks it has a lot to do with this:

&lt;blockquote&gt;If you look at the 10 traits of an underearner – for example, they talk as if they’re trapped; they give away their power; they are self-saboteurs, codependent, vague about money and often anti-wealth – you can see every single trait is a result of a choice we made.

Above all, women must be willing to be uncomfortable, to do what they’re scared to do. The number one requirement to go to the next level in your life is the willingness to do what you think you can’t do. And a big part of that is valuing yourself.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Thanks for this excellent reminder!&lt;p class=&quot;top-comments&quot;&gt;Current score: &lt;span class=&quot;top-comments-karma&quot; id=&quot;karma-175512&quot;&gt;0&lt;/span&gt; &lt;small&gt;(to vote for this comment, please visit the site)&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paula: <strong>Why don&#8217;t we ask? </strong>Barbara Stanny, the author of <a href="http://www.queercents.com/2007/11/12/under-earning-women-and-the-imposter-syndrome/" rel="nofollow">Overcoming Underearning</a> thinks it has a lot to do with this:</p>
<blockquote><p>If you look at the 10 traits of an underearner – for example, they talk as if they’re trapped; they give away their power; they are self-saboteurs, codependent, vague about money and often anti-wealth – you can see every single trait is a result of a choice we made.</p>
<p>Above all, women must be willing to be uncomfortable, to do what they’re scared to do. The number one requirement to go to the next level in your life is the willingness to do what you think you can’t do. And a big part of that is valuing yourself.</p></blockquote>
<p>Thanks for this excellent reminder!
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