Comments on: Surviving Financial Infidelity: Cleaning Up the Mess http://queercents.com/2008/12/02/surviving-financial-infidelity-cleaning-up-the-mess/ We're here, We're queer, and We're not going Shopping without Coupons Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:42:20 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Alex http://queercents.com/2008/12/02/surviving-financial-infidelity-cleaning-up-the-mess/comment-page-1/#comment-177075 Alex Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:52:04 +0000 http://www.queercents.com/?p=4961#comment-177075 I think the only workable solution is one that is fair and treats both of us equally. It is tempting, being the wronged party, to demand transparency into my wife's spending habits without reciprocating. Although that might be workable in the short term, I doubt that it would be acceptable over the long haul. We are, after all, an equal partnership.<p class="top-comments">Current score: <span class="top-comments-karma" id="karma-177075">0</span> <small>(to vote for this comment, please visit the site)</small></p> I think the only workable solution is one that is fair and treats both of us equally. It is tempting, being the wronged party, to demand transparency into my wife’s spending habits without reciprocating. Although that might be workable in the short term, I doubt that it would be acceptable over the long haul. We are, after all, an equal partnership.

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]]> By: Alice http://queercents.com/2008/12/02/surviving-financial-infidelity-cleaning-up-the-mess/comment-page-1/#comment-177031 Alice Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:41:52 +0000 http://www.queercents.com/?p=4961#comment-177031 Thanks, Alex! I can see how the symmetry of having all finances be transparent would really help to defuse some of the tensions that might otherwise be there when one spouse is more concerned with accountability.<p class="top-comments">Current score: <span class="top-comments-karma" id="karma-177031">0</span> <small>(to vote for this comment, please visit the site)</small></p> Thanks, Alex! I can see how the symmetry of having all finances be transparent would really help to defuse some of the tensions that might otherwise be there when one spouse is more concerned with accountability.

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