All day long there has been countless Facebook posts on Chick-Fil-A and comments that we should not spend our hard earned money there anymore. While you do vote with what you eat and spend your money not going to Chick-fil-A because they don’t approve of gay marriage just seems a bit extreme. They have stated they do not hate gays and it is their “biblical” belief that they believe marriage is between a man and a woman. The president Dan Cathy said they were not Anti-Anybody.

While I do take into account how a company treats gay employees when I vote using my money at restaurants and retail stores their stance on gay marriage really seems to ask for too much. We would go hungry trying to find a restaurant that had all of our beliefs. I think what we have to take into account is which we are most concerned about. If gay marriage is more important to you when deciding on where to eat chicken at lunch time and you want to drive across town to a vegan restaurant that is part of the progressive movement then I am glad you have that much time. If you decide that you will shop at somewhere like Whole Foods or a local health food store and eat healthy and be part of a progressive movement without spending more gas and having to give money to a grocery store chain that fights against gay equality that’s another story.

Chick-Fil A is not the perfect representative of gay equality but they are not exactly the only fast food joint donating to causes against gay marriage. Why are we not focused on all of them such as the owner of Carl’s Jr, Yum Brands that owns KFC, and the folks over at In and Out. Doesn’t In N Out put bible verses on their wrapping I doubt they would be for gay marriage. I see gays posting about how excited they are for an In N Out burger with the new store openings but probably do not give that much thought. I am not a religious person grouped with the fact I like wheat bread on my hamburgers so really don’t care to eat In N Out. Chick-Fil-A on the other hand does have wheat bread and offers healthy sides such as fruits and oatmeal breakfast that I love. I’m not going to hurt my health and drive across the street to McDonald’s and eat food that could have enough preservatives in it and the bleached white bread to last decades because of their biblical beliefs of the corporation.

There are gays and lesbians working for Chick-Fil-A but where is the HRC rating for this? The HRC has nothing listed on their buyers guide for the controversial chicken house. They do have Brinker who owns Chili’s, Carlson who owns Friday’s, and McDonald’s listed. All unhealthy places of shame. The rating on these restaurants are all above 80, including Darden restaurants who owns the cheap pasta and iceberg lettuce at Olive Garden. Yum! Brands is rated at 65, they own KFC the other chicken joint but at least you can get grilled chicken that is mighty finger lickin’ good and much better than fried. The ever-popular Taco Bell, Wingstreet, Pizza Hut, and Long John Silver’s are also part of Yum!

What about Pizza? I see no listing for Papa Murphy’s or California Pizza Kitchen where I normally get my grub. I do see Domino’s pizza at a 60 HRC ranking. If you like Qdoba thou must drive down to Del Taco because they only get a 15 since they are owned by Jack in the Box.

The worst ratings go to OSI Restaurants who own Carrabba’s Italian Grill and Outback Steakhouse. They score a zero in the HRC rankings.  El Pollo Loco was accused of their top executives of donating money to Proposition 8, but after reading some Yelp posts I see that soem executives are coming out saying there are some of them who voted against it.

This leaves us with the top rated restaurants according to the HRC are some of the most unhealthiest besides Starbucks which has a 100. I am so glad to see Starbucks ranking high! We should all be thinking about this and kind of make our own ranking system no matter what type of business we are supporting. I spend most of my money in gay clubs and bars so I am certainly supporting the LGBT giving tips to bartenders, drag queens, etc. When I want to sit down to a healthy meal and make up for some of that alcohol intake I can’t really judge an eating establishment on “gay marriage” alone.

I think we need to look at the whole company and not what a few executives have done.  Look at how they treat their gay employees, what benefits those workers get, how they treat the gay customers when we dine-in or drive-thru, see if they attend community events such as Gay Pride, if they give to gay charities, or even give us discounts such as American Airlines does.   In the case of Chick-Fil-A, they have donated to a few bad apples such as Focus on the Family $12,500; Family Research Council $1,000; Marriage & Family Legacy Fund $994,199.  Those numbers are disturbing and make the case more then them showing up with food at some event which is what the HRC and others were up in arms about and got the most media attention.  Although their other donations to the Fellowship of Christian Athletes and the National Christian Foundation really should not be a concern they are a company with their strong beliefs.  This is a company that is closed on Sunday if that tells you anything, but they do not try to convert you when you drink their sweet tea either.

Here are some of the things I look at when dining out:

  • The quality of the food
  • Healthy ingredients such as romaine lettuce and whole wheat instead of bleached white bread
  • Is it gay-friendly?
  • Are the animals abused or pumped with steroids or salt?
  • Hours they are open
  • Location
  • Drive-Thru

I love Chick-Fil-A  but plan to eat it less even though its on my street.  They just opened up a Chick-Fil-A in Hollywood and they may have to learn that you have to be a bit more open minded when stepping into our gayborhood or they will not last long.  If you are going to eat more Chicken or Kale as some artists call it then you best check out some more local gay-friendly establishments if you have the time.  If you do eat at Chick-Fil A my advice to you is to download the Foursquare APP or Yelp.  Check into the fast food restaurant daily or whenever you drive by and make sure you have a gay pride flag in your Foursquare.  Then you can leave tips but just do not say anything vulgar or hateful.  Become a mayor of your local chicken house and then you can really get some attention on Foursquare.  If enough gay pride signs are on Foursquare’s across the US and tips left for Chick-Fil-A then we might get our word in.

Quote today from Facebook

I’d like a #1, hold the political agenda. Thanks.” Seriously, why can’t they just serve a sandwich? Why does it have to be anything more than that?  I don’t care what you think. Feed me and STFU right now. If I pull into an auto shop, I don’t ask they guy rotating my tire his views on life and politics. I ask him about deals on radials. When I go to breakfast I don’t ask the waitress her opinions on the Stock Exchange and Income Disparity when she brings my coffee, I ask her what the special is. These guys should realize they are here to serve chicken, nothing more, nothing less, and no one cares what they think. Everybody Serves Somebody, and it would be a good idea to keep in mind when you are serving and when you are being served. When one of our customers calls my job next time, I’m not likely to explain my religious and political views; I serve them. These guys serve me, and should keep their place. Back in the day, the help would get the shit smacked out of them if they spoke out of turn to the people they served. I’m fucking sick of people thinking they’re special little snowflakes and their agendas matter. If you serve chicken, you’re not in a position to have your views examined and validated like you matter. Outside of the workplace, when two individual people speak as equals, then opinions can be debated on all manner of topics and this progresses society, philosophy, and the human race can grow and prosper. Inside the workplace, STFU and serve, or be served, and know which is which. This pisses me off, not because I give a shit what they think, but because I should not know what they think, because it’s not their place to ever, ever tell me what they think. And, because, honestly, I like the chicken. I don’t want to know what they like and don’t, I just want to eat there without feeling…anything besides full when I leave.

Another post that is a really good idea to take away from some of our guilt from giving money to anti-gay businesses:

Well, not everyone is okay with a civil union and Chick fil A stands out among other businesses because of their public statements and company policies. It was easy to boycott when they weren’t in LA but now that they are down the street I keep a tally of my visits and donate $5 to Trevor Project each visit to counter my guilt of adding to the oppression they support.

I just have to add one more FB quote:
Okay, I’m gonna join in on the Chick Fil-A craze just cuz… They could really stand to profit from this publicity! Now, I think they should revamp their menu and introduce some evangelical-themed items; items such as:

-righteous rings;
-judgment juice;
-holy rolls;
-baptist biscuits;
-speaking-in-tongues spicy sandwiches;
-conservative cole slaw;
-coldhearted tea (instead of ‘iced’);
-grilled gay sandwiches;
-naïve nuggets; and
-sinless salads

What do you think?  Should we ban Chick-Fil-A or are their fast food or other restaurants that could be worse when it comes to gay equality?