Giving gifts is a great way to express gratitude, break the ice, or just make the other person feel good. People give flowers on almost every occasion: first dates, the day after, birthdays, engagements, anniversaries- I don’t know of any occasion where flowers aren’t appropriate. However, if the receiver has allergies or doesn’t have a green thumb the foliage may reach the garbage heap before it was intended.

According to AboutFlowers.com, the floral industry raked in over 20 billion dollars in retail sales in 2007. That’s a lot of money for an item that may die. For the person who does not appreciate them, what do you buy? For those who simply can not afford them, what is the alternative? What do you give to show your date that you appreciate the time being spent with you? In lieu of flowers, here are three unconventional gift ideas  to give on dates:

Gift Cards: Usually, I would say gift cards are for the lazy people who don’t want to think before buying gifts. On the contrary,  strategically purchased gift cards  over a period of time, could lead to a great date night  that is pre-paid all the way.

Collectibles: Think about the conversations you have had with the person. What are they fond of? When dating, it is common to learn all of these quirky details so pay attention.   My girlfriend is a ladybug fanatic so anything with the the little red creature could be appropriate. A lesser known fave of hers is Betty Boop. Just  think of the cool points I will score with that purchase.   I collect miniature tea sets, so even a $1 set from the Dollar Tree would tickle my fancy.

First Meeting Memento: Look back on your first meeting and choose an item significant to that day.   Did you meet at the laundromat?    Bring fabric softener. Did you meet in the grocery store? Grab  a box of their favorite cereal.

The key is to be thoughtful and out of the box. Just don’t buy an alligator if you met at the zoo.

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