Some people look at church as a deeply religious experience; while others do not. Some people believe in God, others Allah, others Buddha, and still some believe in no higher power at all. Just for a moment, I would like you to expand your view of church because it can be a lot of fun.

The idea for this post donned on me at a New Year’s Eve service where I saw a couple, who were  on a date. I thought to myself, “Hmm. Why didn’t I think of that? It’s free, entertaining, and way for us to learn more about one another.” Now, it’s even clearer to me that churches are not solely religious institutions, but act as social organizations as well.

Often  times churches are very active in the community. Providing food and shelter, free HIV testing, and sponsorships for PRIDE events across the country  are not uncommon for LGBT affirming churches. Unity Fellowship Church in Charlotte, NC also does outreach at some of the  local colleges.

Church can provide you the opportunity to take time out with your partner to do something for someone else- and it’s rewarding. Volunteer buffs will have no problem finding an activity in which to participate. It’s like a ready made date waiting to happen. You just have to choose what you want to participate in.

At some churches, you can find movie nights, theatrical productions, choir concerts, guest speakers, a church service, or even great trips at discounted rates. Even more, churches are now taking the whole family into account with children’s services, social groups for kids, and even dance teams.

Various ministries have been established to address the concerns of families, couples, and single individuals alike. Workshops and conferences on budgeting, financial planning, and taxes are now even more common place in churches.

It doesn’t matter the denomination of the church either. At Whosoever.org they provide a directory of LGBT friendly churches throughout the nation. So whether you are in Raleigh, FL or San Francisco, CA – you can find a church that welcomes you with open arms, provides great activities (often FREE), and fun can be had by all!

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