Laziness and My Lamest Money Drain
I absolutely love to cook. I always have, but since moving into my own place and having my own kitchen I’ve sort of exploded. This weekend, I successfully navigated my first solo pot roast and made bagels from scratch. Cooking, especially the kind of extreme cooking you associate with grandmothers or holidays, feels at once frugally sensible and cozily luxurious. The bagels, in particular, felt like a flying feat of domestic prowess.
Since I’ve been working 9 to 5, I’ve mostly been cooking ahead, making stews or soup (or pot roasts) each weekend and eating the frozen leftovers all weekend. They cost less, taste better and are more filling and nutritious than grocery deli sandwiches or frozen dinners.
In theory, I do everything right–I make the free coffee at work instead of buying it on the way, and I make most of my own breakfasts, lunches and snacks. In practice, though, the food I buy during the day at work tends to glare out of my expense tracker as the lamest way I make my money slowly-but-surely disappear. It’s pure laziness–so, to keep myself accountable, here are a few of the ways a tiny expense of energy pays off in cash and comfort during the week.
Planning ahead: It takes ten minutes to put together a stew or soup, and maybe three or four hours of waiting for it to cook. Technically, I don’t even need to be in the apartment for that part (though I’d rather not burn the kitchen down). There’s always time, and there’s usually motivation–the problem is that when I don’t do something so simple, I also don’t think about what I’ll do instead, and get blindsided Monday morning when I’m looking for something to pack.
Seriously. Get. Out. Of. Bed. Seriously.: I’ve always been a morning person, but there’s a difference between a college student’s morning and everyone else on the planet’s morning–about two hours different, I think. If I sleep in for fifteen or twenty minutes I still get to work on time, but I’m much more likely to be flustered, skip breakfast or forget lunch, and buy something on the way. Not to mention the stress is way worse than the comfort of sleeping in.
Lunchtime walks: My favorite brown bag hack is using my lunch break to get some exercise. I work near the major monuments in DC, so I walk a loop around Washington and Lincoln during my break and then eat at my desk. There are always corporate walkers and runners mixed in with the tourists–including lots of people talking business and networking. I feel better, I eat better, and I don’t spend any money.
Prioritize: I track going out–dinners, happy hours, bars, and coffee shops–as a different expense than weekday food because instead of making me feel guilty, this social time is important to me and worth my money. It’s often easy to talk myself out of a sandwich for lunch by thinking about how many plates of half-price BBQ chicken nachos at happy hour that sandwich is worth.
If I could just manage to stay on top of these things, that would be a start. Does anybody else find they lose money to these little recurring laziness problems–how do you keep yourself motivated?
Melissa: cooking is one of the best ways to save money. Since you’re a newfound foodie, you might like these books: Julie and Julia & The Amateur Gourmet (he’s frugal too).
I always have the best intentions of BYO-Food. I have Gladware, a titanium spork, Wrap-n-Mats, a lunch sack, etc. and yet still cannot manage to get my crap together some weeks. Some weeks it’s just *not possible* with all the other stuff going on so I’m trying to use honesty as my secret weapon. Will I honestly have time and the will to hammer out even a sandwich this week?
My other trick is to buy pre-packaged stuff from my grocery store or co-op. An Amy’s pocket sandwich or a pre-made health food store sandwich ($2-$4) is still way cheaper than what I will spend in midtown NY trying to get lunch (or, worse, rationalize that since I’m buying lunch anyway I might as well get what I’d really like to eat) – most likely $7-15.
What’s been most helpful is packing my lunch when I get home from work/am done with making dinner so that it’s ready to go *before I get sidetracked*.
Shit happens though. So I just try to be forgiving and get back on track as soon as I can.
At my last job, I loved bringing my own lunch and then spending the 2nd half of my lunch break on a walk. (I normally ate inside).
Totally understand the getting out of bed one. I’m always desperate to stay in there, but more sleep is not necessarily the foundation for a good day.
Melissa,
Just wanted to say (as one young D.C.-area homo to another) that I’m a big fan of all your posts here on Queercents.
Keep up the awesome work!
Ok…you need to go to Wally World or Walgreens or some such and get a 1 1/2 qt or 2 qt Crock Pot with the Removable Liner…they should be about $10.
I bought several just to get the extra stoneware liners…cheaper than buying them separate from Rival or whomever.
The big trick is put everything in the liner the night before and pop it into the Fridge…then all you have to do in the morning is take it out..drop into the base and plug it in.
When you get home dinners done.
The 1 1/2 qt model is just right to make two good size servings…one for dinner and one to take to work.
The extra liners let you have more than one dish ready to cook or lets you store the extra serving in it…thus not dirtying a storage container.
And if you keep the extra cooking bases you can cook several different items at once.
You should also try cooking oatmeal in one overnight…great with nuts, raisins, dried fruits and ready when you get up.
~ Roland
Nina: Oh, I have such a big gay crush on the Amateur Gourmet!
Jesse: A titanium spork? Seriously? Amazing….
Mrs. Micah: I know! Who ever thought more sleep couldn’t be the answer?
AJ: <3
Roland: My mom rocked the crock pot throughout my developmental years…. I keep meaning to get around to buying one, so you know how that is….