Does Your Attitude Determine Your Financial Outcome?
It’s the New Year, and many of us are making resolutions for 2010. My 2010 goals are very similar to last year, but I’ve added some new goals, too:
- Track all my expenses
- Spend $350 a month or less on food
- Put $200 a month in savings
- Try one new recipe each week
- Write every day
- Read every day
- Meet my goal weight of 165
- Practice daily spirituality
The goal of putting more money into savings is going to be a challenge, but it’s a challenge that I am excited to meet. It will mean slashing our entertainment expenses and keeping our utility costs in check, but I would much rather see our money going into savings than into the coffers of the electric company.
The first book that I am reading for the new year is Dan Brown’s The Lost Symbol. The book has a lot of information in it about the belief that your thoughts can literally effect the outcome of events. Although the book is fictional, it has a basis in reality. A few years ago the film “The Secret” enjoyed a wave of popularity, and many people, Oprah included, were turned onto the idea of sending positive intentions out in to the universe in order to attract abundance into their lives.
The basic premise is that our thoughts are like magnets that have the ability to attract actual matter. It’s simply a question of switching your mindset and the way that you think about your life. For example, if you constantly think about all the debt that you have, you are going to be attracting more debt, because that is the energy that you are sending out into the universe. However, if you flip the script and start expressing gratitude for your ability to meet your needs, you will start attracting more prosperity.
I know . . . it sounds a little hippie dippy. I was skeptical when I saw “The Secret,” too. But I started to read more about the idea of mind over matter, and there’s a lot of evidence to support this claim. In fact, Lana wrote a whole series for Queercents last year about building personal wealth consciousness by applying many of the same principles that are discussed in “The Secret,” as well as The Lost Symbol.
Set Specific Goals
To get started, write down your goals for the year and then post them in a place where you will see them every day. You could make just a simple list, or you could do a vision board/treasure map where you put up pictures that represent your goals. Another way to do this is to write your intentions on a piece of paper, then put the paper in a flower pot. Plant some seeds, and as your plant grows, so grows your intention. Be sure to put a small piece of bread in the bottom of the pot as a gift for the plant.
Good News is Worth Repeating
Begin each day by affirming your intentions for the year. For example, I will meet my goal weight this year, and I will save $200 each month. When you pay your bills each month, do it with a attitude of abundance. For example, I am grateful that I have more than enough money to meet my needs.
Out With the Old, In With the New
Is there something negative in your life that might prevent you from meeting your goals in 2010? Why not have a purging party, like these New Yorkers did? You could write down what you want to purge, then put it through the shredder. Another way to do it is to write it down and then burn the paper in a bowl. You could put a small amount of patchouli or witches’ hazel in the bowl if you want, because both of them have cleansing properties.
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What’s your opinion? Do your thoughts really have the power to effect your financial outcomes? If you think about wide open freeways, will you really avoid the traffic? I’d love to get your take on it. What are your goals for 2010?
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I love this idea and I try to practice some form of “The Secret,” or really just being grateful every day. I like the idea of paying bills with a sense of gratitude instead of begrudgingly parting with money. Sometimes when some unexpected expense comes up (usually a car problem), instead of getting annoyed I try to be thankful that I have enough money to pay for the unexpected.
Stacy, car issues . . . I think we can all relate to that. I like your approach.
Good luck with those goals Serena. They sound like enough to be challenging but not unreachable. I really liked Lana’s series last year and still have her list of “Wealthy Thought forms” by my desk. I never read/saw The Secret but I certainly agree in principle. My wife and I experienced a shift late last year when I let her be in charge for a while. 🙂 She is much more laid back than me. It brought amazing abundance into our lives. Could have been coincidence but relaxing our attitude toward money (and everything really) seemed to really work on many levels.
Thanks for the support, Carol. I love that you and your partner tried switching it up and that it had a tangible result.
How have your goals been coming along? In the fall you were working on downsizing and building your lunch business. How’s that going?
For more information regarding attracting what you focus on, check out Church of Religious Science also known as Science of Mind.
The unprovability of these attraction notions aside, these goals are attainable through one’s own efforts. Assess where you are now, determine where you want to be, calculate how much work will it take to get there, and estimate you own abilities to perform that work. If necessary, adjust your goals downwards to fit your parameters, or undergo further educational opportunities where possible. No supernatural efforts required.